Finally got time to blog while baby is sleeping;
Would like to share my labour story......There you go.
Gestation = 39 weeks
11 Dec 07
1.30am
Heard a slight pop sound and seems like I'm leaking, not too sure if its urine or waterbag leak, no show. Went to the toilet and get myself changed. As I was seated on the toilet bowl, slightly more water flow out....still curious if its my urine or am i in labour?
Went back to lay down on bed not knowing anything :P Feeling quite uncomfy with the wetness, went out to the living room to take my labour notes, then suddenly water flow out again. This time with 'show'....Guess this is it, need to go hospital already.....so woke my hub up and get ourself prepared.Went for a long, warm bath and had my hair shampoo-ed too. After that, we went for a prata supper before I got admitted to hospital.
3.18am
Admitted to hospital and was on the CTG strap to monitor bb heartbeat and contraction.
Contraction was mild and they checked that I was not dilated yet and indeed my waterbag had broke. Got very mild pain but back start to ache already. Rest and watch TV as time passed every second. So waiting game begins........In my mind, I was thinking probably my baby can be out during the noon or latest by late afternoon time......Who knows....
10.00am
Dr Watt arrived and did a checked on me. Asking me how again....She checked on my cervix and said that I was dilated 1.5cm only. Waiting again. She predicted that I will not be ready that soon for delivery and request to have drip on me to help dilate faster. As the drip pressure increase and increase, I can find more pain and aching. Trying to endure as much as I can. As the drip pressure got stronger, I could not endure the pain anymore so I call for the epidural at around 11.45am.
12.30pm
The epidural anesthesiologist then arrived and inject me with the drug. The first jab hurts man....think its because he did not apply enough of the numbness drug behind my back. Heard from my SIL that her's doesnt hurt at all. Sigh......Anyway.....pain once again.....After a while, i found numbness to both my leg and my lower body and wat a relief....shiOk...
Continue to rest or either watch tv.....cant really get myself to sleep at all.
1.30pm
Cervix was dilated to 3cm ONLY.....slowslow........so long....Wait....wait.....
5.00pm
Dr Watt came again...Check again....this time 5cm.....She told me now I'm really in active labour already. If cervix nv dilate further then ceasaren had to be carried out....She then said we shall wait and see, around night time she will come again. Predict bb Kayden can still be a 11 dec baby....Can't be bothered with that, just hope bb can come out asap....
8.00pm
Felt some pressure at the anus, felt like shitting....Quickly called the nurse to come check me to see if I've dilate further and if bb is coming out....Nurse checked and I'm 8cm dilated already....2 more cm to go before i can push....Yuppiee....at least no need to c-sec. So worried about wat Dr Watt said earlier....
9.30pm
Dr Watt came and I'm 10cm dilated already. I can start pushing already. Tried pushing with all my might, really exert all my strength to try pushing this little boy out. Keep telling myself that I must jia you and get him out asap, cannot give up so easily. Dr Watt then went out and ask me to try pushing baby myself, if not she will assist.
Push and push and push, 3x of 10 breathing count......really lack of breath and energy anymore. And I keep telling myself not to give up and must keep pushing.....In the end, tried pushing together with hub support and 2 midwife or nurses for 1.5 hours but still no sight of baby.....I'm so stressed out.....
11.10pm
Dr Watt came in again and this time, got her to assist instead. Really cannot push bb out myself. She then prepared all the necessary equipments and she will be using forceps to help the baby out.
11 plus pm
Baby is finally out with gynae forceps assisted and with my all my mighty push.
So tired....What a relief and I teared....
My little bundle of joy had finally arrived......
When they had the baby on my tummy once he's out, I remembered my hub was telling me to look at baby but I was without specs and was so tired and stressed out that I told him 我不要看 in a slightly harsh tone, felt so bad in saying this after that and quickly asked him for my specs and have a good look at baby and talk to baby. Don't know what had come over me to say that, think I'm really really stressed out. Till now I can still remember that in my mind :P
Wat a labour process.......
Total labour hours - Approx. 20 hours